Shift your perspective

We’re excellent at spotting patterns, playing games, and figuring out multiple different ways to tackle a challenge. We love to solve problems, and solving everyone else's challenges seems easy. The… “Here’s what we’re gonna do…” or “I’ve got it… I know so-and-so, and they’ll be able to help...”

So why is it we’re such great problem solvers for others but not ourselves?

The next time you’re facing a challenge of your own and you find yourself blocked or stewing on the matter, offer yourself a new perspective.

How would you react if someone you love/admire was dealing with your same situation?
What questions would you ask?
What would you learn from this inquiry?
What options would present themselves?

My ask is that you notice how your brain hops into action when you imagine someone else dealing with your current situation. Suddenly, space is created to view your circumstance differently.

It's important to acknowledge that there isn't always a problem to solve (even though we love to do it!). Often the needed action is to listen to and give the space to process the situation.

Can you offer yourself the space to sit in complexity—without judgment?

How will you offer your brilliant creative ability to yourself?

Can you apply it to your own situation with the generosity you give it to others?